Abbey Catering & Events


About Abbey Catering & Events

Abbey Catering & Events

Making San Diego Events Deliciously Easy

Abbey Catering has been simplifying events and delivering heritage hospitality in San Diego since 2000. We provide complete, all-inclusive packages that make planning weddings, private parties, and corporate events truly stress-free. Our customizable packages come with everything from abundant menus and professional bartending to décor, entertainment, and on-the-day coordination. Choose from different tiers to meet your needs and budget, then personalize with your choice of appetizers, entrees, and details. Contact Abbey Catering today to discover why we're one of San Diego's most trusted catering companies.

Our customizable all-inclusive packages and event coordination make planning events truly stress-free. We handle the details from start to finish. Our staff provides an abundant, welcoming experience where celebrations feel meaningful and joyful. Our experience hosting events at San Diego's premier venues has allowed us to establish trusted partnerships. With a range of packages and add-ons, we offer menus and events tailored to each client's individual style, needs and budget. Our seasoned team of experienced professionals handle even the most complex events with expertise and grace. We deliver excellence through decades of know-how.


Sample catered weddings

Surrounded by live greenery from top to bottom and the open air makes this venue a dreamscape for weddings. We loved their black-tie aesthetic and their menu was full of sophisticated yet approachable food, such as our beef wellingtons and seared ahi tuna on wonton. PHOTO CREDIT: BE Studios, @bestudios_sd

Guest Count

140

Total Catering Cost

$21,000

Menu Highlights

  • Seated meal
  • Passed appetizers
  • Wedding cake service
  • Four Tray Passed Appetizers, Served Salad Course, and Served Dual Entrée Dinner Course.

Services Included

  • Clean Up / Trash Removal
  • Chef(s)
  • Service Captain(s)
  • Bartender(s)
  • Service Staff
  • Setup / Breakdown
  • Rentals
Nikki & Kevin got married at the gorgeous SD Botanical Garden Conservatory. Their black-tie event was full of martinis, delicious food, & good times.
Abbey's custom made champagne tree makes for an immediate conversation piece. Suspends up to 88 glasses in it's branches.
Full bar in action, making a Manhattan Martini
Post ceremony dip and kiss!

Services

Services

  • Bartenders
  • Cleanup and breakdown
  • Consultations and tastings - complimentary
  • Consultations and tastings - for a fee
  • Delivery and setup
  • Event planner
  • Rental coordination - directly invoice couple
  • Rental coordination - does not invoice couple
  • Serving staff

Cuisines

  • African
  • American
  • BBQ
  • Cajun
  • Chinese
  • Eastern European
  • Farm-to-table
  • French
  • Fusion
  • Greek
  • Hawaiian
  • Indian
  • Italian
  • Japanese
  • Korean
  • Latin American
  • Mexican
  • Middle Eastern
  • Seafood
  • Southern
  • Southwestern
  • Spanish
  • Thai

Dietary accommodations

  • Dairy-free
  • Gluten-free
  • Halal
  • Kosher
  • Nut-free
  • Organic
  • Vegan
  • Vegetarian

Meal types

  • Breakfast/brunch
  • Buffet
  • Dessert service
  • Family-style meal
  • Food stations
  • Passed appetizers
  • Seated meal
  • Stationary appetizers
  • Wedding cake service

Beverage services

  • Bartending
  • Beverage servingware rentals
  • Mixers/non-alcoholic options
  • Provides liquor license

Drink types

  • Beer
  • Coffee service
  • Liquor
  • Mobile bar
  • Non-alcoholic
  • Signature cocktails
  • Wine

Reviews

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Rating: 5.0

5.0 out of 5

31 reviews

  • P

    Petr

    Rating: 5
    Zola
    Jul 28, 2026

    EXCEPTIONAL FOOD & SERVICE!

    Celebrating my 50th birthday deserved something truly extraordinary, and Abbey Catering delivered an experience that was beyond anything I could have imagined. Hosting my celebration at The Headquarters in Downtown San Diego was already special, but the exceptional food and impeccable service made it an unforgettable evening for me and every one of my guests. Working with Megan was an absolute dream. From our very first conversation about my event, she made me feel like my celebration was as important to her as it was to me. She anticipated every detail, offered thoughtful guidance, and handled everything with warmth, grace, and professionalism. Knowing she was behind the scenes allowed me to relax and be fully present with my family and friends on such a meaningful milestone. Chef David created a menu that was nothing short of spectacular. Every course was beautifully presented, thoughtfully crafted, and absolutely delicious. The flavors were elegant, fresh, and memorable--true restaurant-quality cuisine that exceeded every expectation. Throughout the evening, guests kept stopping me to rave about the food, saying it was some of the finest catering they had ever experienced. What made Abbey Catering stand out wasn't just the incredible cuisine--it was the genuine care, attention to detail, and passion that Megan, Chef David, and the entire team brought to every aspect of the event. They didn't simply cater my party; they helped create an atmosphere of celebration, elegance, and joy that my family and friends will remember for years to come. Thank you, Megan, Chef David, and the entire Abbey Catering team, for making my 50th birthday so beautiful and unforgettable. You created an experience that felt effortless, luxurious, and deeply personal. I am beyond grateful and recommend Abbey Catering wholeheartedly to anyone looking for an exceptional culinary experience and truly world-class service.

    Abbey Catering & EventsAug 8, 2026

    Thank you, Petr! You are extraordinarily special to us and celebrating with you on your 50th birthday was epic! As per usual, you threw a party for the decade that was exquisitely put together and a ton of fun. Thank you for having us provide the catering bites for all your favorite people. Thrilled everything was a hit! From our hearts to yours, Happy Birthday and we love you!

  • JE

    James E.

    Rating: 5
    Zola
    Jun 24, 2026

    Best Day Ever

    They truly did provide us with the best day of our lives! We chose Abbey Catering from a list provided to us by our venue, and man it turned out to be one of the best decision we ever made. They provided so much guidance and the food tasting night hosted by them is a great fun time that really helped with deciding on a menu. When it came to the day of, I swear the food was even better than when we tasted it! Every single person from the event staff was professional, fun, and did an amazing job. The bar never had a long line, the drinks were strong and well made, service was truly a standout feature of the wedding. It was really a standout feature of the whole process of planning our wedding with Abbey. It is a full team of people there to help out with anything, and I want to thank them for their guidance, and patience with us. Another massive feature of Abbey is the vendors they work with. I want to give a huge shoutout to our DJ Abel from The Wedding Entertainment Collective, and Chris from SD Photo Studio. Amazing vendors recommended by Abbey that made a huge impact on how well our day went. A very special thanks to everyone at Abbey; Will, Chuck, Megan for their amazing support in planning, and selling us on Abbey in the first place! Then a massive thank you to David, our coordinator/event captain. You were so easy to work with, the day went so smooth, and made sure we never lifted a finger or had a single worry all throughout the day. It was all so perfect, you have our eternal gratitude and thanks! They help us provide the best wedding we could have hoped for, and are constantly being told by our friends and family how fun it was.

    Abbey Catering & EventsJul 8, 2026

    Thank you so much for your incredible review, James & Lauren! Knowing we helped create the best day of your lives is the greatest compliment we could receive. We're so happy to hear that you enjoyed every step of the experience, from the tasting event and planning process to the food, bar service, and your wedding day. It's wonderful to know that our team helped you feel supported and stress free so you could simply enjoy celebrating with your family and friends. Thank you for recognizing Will, Chuck, Megan, and David, as well as Abel and Chris. We'll be sure to share your kind words with each of them. It takes an amazing team to bring a wedding together, and we're thrilled they helped make your vision a reality. Thank you again for trusting Abbey Catering with such an important milestone. We wish you both a lifetime of love, happiness, and unforgettable memories together!

  • RA

    Rida A.

    Rating: 5
    Zola
    Jun 1, 2026

    Perfect for a custom wedding

    For anyone planning an event or wedding, look no further than Abbey Catering and Events. Troy set our minds at ease by ensuring us our non-standard wedding could easily come to life because all of their offerings and services were fully customizable. On top of that, he took the time to get to know us and understand our vision for this wedding. David and Petr took over from there to flesh out the wedding details, providing their expertise to ensure we didn't miss anything and communicated with us regularly to ensure the planning process happened in a timely manner, thereby reducing stress. Petr was our day-of coordinator, and the day could not have gone more perfectly. Petr is thoughtful, considerate, detail-oriented, and has amazing vision. We were able to focus on enjoying the wedding knowing Petr had the whole event under control. The day really was a dream and it's all thanks to the magnificent Abbey team (especially Petr!). Abbey is a one-stop shop for anything you need for your event. We booked the photographer, DJ, photobooth, and all the catering services through Abbey. This meant, we only had one point of contact for the majority of the wedding. So convenient! All our guests had such a great time. The food was exquisite, drinks were tasty, photobooth was a hit, and dancefloor was LIT (shoutout to Brian, the best DJ). We hope to have an excuse to plan an event with them in the future!

    Abbey Catering & EventsJun 3, 2026

    Thank you so much for your incredibly kind words! It was truly an honor to be part of your wedding journey and help bring your unique vision to life. We're thrilled to hear that Troy helped put your minds at ease from the very beginning and that David and Petr provided the guidance, communication, and expertise needed to make the planning process smooth and enjoyable. Your recognition of Petr's dedication and attention to detail means so much. Our goal is always to allow couples to be fully present on their wedding day, and we're delighted that you were able to relax and enjoy every moment knowing everything was in good hands. We're also so happy to hear that all of your guests had such a wonderful time! From the food and drinks to the photobooth and packed dance floor, it sounds like the celebration was everything you envisioned. We'll be sure to share your shoutout with Brian as well. He'll be thrilled to know he helped keep the party going all night long! Thank you for trusting Abbey Catering & Event Design with such an important day. We are grateful for the opportunity to serve you, and we would love the chance to help you celebrate again in the future. Wishing you both a lifetime of happiness and wonderful memories together!

  • LS

    Lauren S.

    Rating: 5
    Zola
    May 18, 2026

    10/10 Experience!

    Choosing Abbey Catering was the best decision we made for our wedding planning process! From the initial stages of working with Will, we received timely responses, even when we asked for multiple proposals with a variety of options! We always felt supported and confidently guided throughout the entire booking and contracting process. Our coordinator, Chuck, was amazing to work with! He made the planning process effortless from start to finish. He was organized, communicative, and always willing to help with any questions or last-minute details that came up along the way. His calm and reassuring presence made such a difference during what could have been a stressful time, and he truly helped bring our vision to life! One of the things we appreciated most about Abbey Catering was how convenient everything was. Having one company handle so many aspects of the wedding made coordinating vendors incredibly easy and saved us so much time and stress! Every vendor they provided was fantastic to work with, and everything on the wedding day ran so smoothly because of their professionalism and preparation. The food and drinks were absolutely delicious and we received so many compliments from our guests! Our favorite part was walking out of the ceremony and seeing Chuck holding two drinks for us, and then David greeting us with appetizers! DJ Brian set the tone for the entire night, and nailed it! We didn't leave the dance floor once! If you are thinking of booking with Abbey Catering - this is your sign! Thank you to the Abbey Catering team for the most amazing experience!

    Abbey Catering & EventsJun 3, 2026

    Thank you so much for your incredibly kind review! Reading about your experience truly made our day. It was an absolute pleasure helping you throughout your wedding journey, and we're so grateful that you trusted Abbey Catering & Event Design with such an important celebration. From the very beginning, our goal is to make the planning process as seamless and enjoyable as possible, so it means a lot to hear that you felt supported and guided every step of the way. Thank you for your kind words about Will and Chuck. We are thrilled to hear that Will helped make the booking process smooth and that Chuck provided the organization, communication, and reassurance needed to make planning feel effortless. We know how much time, energy, and emotion go into planning a wedding, and we're delighted that Chuck was able to help bring your vision to life while keeping the process stress-free. We also love hearing that our all-in-one approach helped simplify the coordination process and allowed you to spend less time managing vendors and more time enjoying your engagement. That's exactly the experience we strive to create for our couples. Some of our favorite moments to create are the little ones that couples remember long after the wedding day. We love that walking out of your ceremony to find Chuck holding drinks and David greeting you with appetizers became one of those special memories. Those are the moments that make all the planning worthwhile. We're also thrilled that the food, drinks, and entertainment were such a hit with you and your guests. We'll be sure to pass along your compliments to Brian. Hearing that you never left the dance floor is about as high a compliment as a DJ can receive! Thank you again for your trust, your recommendation, and for allowing us to be part of such a beautiful celebration. We wish you both a lifetime of happiness, love, and countless wonderful memories together!

  • ID

    Ian & D.

    Rating: 5
    Zola
    May 16, 2026

    Choose Abbey Catering for your wedding!

    Choosing Abbey was hands-down the best decision we made for our wedding. They covered essentially everything we needed at an incredibly reasonable price, and having a single point of contact for the majority of our vendors made the entire process so much easier. We added the planning services to our package and were paired with Chuck—and honestly, shoutout to Chuck because he was absolutely amazing! He was supportive, communicative, and stayed by our side through over a year of planning to help us achieve our dream day. Every single vendor provided by Abbey was fantastic. The food and drinks were delicious, and our DJ and videographer were a total breeze to work with. If you want a stress-free experience that delivers a flawless wedding without breaking the bank, I cannot recommend Abbey enough. Thank you all so much!

    Abbey Catering & EventsMay 17, 2026

    Thank you so much for your kind words, Diana! We’re thrilled to hear your experience with Abbey, and especially with Chuck, made your wedding planning smooth and memorable. It means the world to know our team and vendors helped bring your dream day to life! We wish you and Ian all the best 😊


We craft menus ranging from crowd favorites to modern bites in a variety of cuisines. From Indian to Italian, and Mexican to Moroccan - we have you covered. Our chefs make delicious, abundant dishes tailored to wow your guests.
We offer four bar packages from Bronze to Platinum. Our packages include professional bartenders, all necessary equipment, and coordination of ABC licensing.
We have three main menus that can be customized with appetizer and entree selections. If you have specific preferences, we'll collaborate to make a tailored menu that fits your vision.
At Abbey Catering, we understand that every guest comes with unique dietary preferences and requirements. We strongly believe that everyone should have access to delicious food, regardless of their dietary choices or restrictions. That's why we offer an extensive array of vegan, vegetarian, and gluten-free options. Whether it's swapping out meat for a hearty plant-based protein or substituting regular pasta with a gluten-free alternative, our team ensures that every guest feels included and catered for without compromising on taste or quality.