The Vineyards at Aquebogue

•Ratings include Zola and Google reviews

All-inclusive venue

The venue takes care of it all - food and beverage, rentals, the works!

Full wedding (ceremony and reception) pricing

Starting at $14,100 for off-peak dates, and $15,500 for peak dates

Packages

Guest capacity

Up to 300 seated guests

About this venue

Nestled on the North Fork of Long Island, The Vineyards at Aquebogue provides a captivating setting at any time of year for your next event. Whether it be your dream wedding, an intimate celebration or corporate event, we will make your dreams come true.

Seated guest capacity

1-300

Venue type

Ballrooms, Banquet Halls
Parks, Gardens
Vineyards, Wineries

Venue setting

Covered Outdoor
Indoor
Outdoor

978 Main Rd, Aquebogue, NY 11931

The Vineyards at Aquebogue packages

2024 Package Offer

Description

Your Dream 2024 Wedding Starting at $19,995

Available services that can be provided by The Vineyards at Aquebogue

Services & amenities

Bar services
Catering services
Clean up
Dance floor
Dressing room / Bridal Suite
Event staff
Liability insurance
Lighting/Sound
Service staff
Set up
Wheelchair accessible

Transportation & access

Self parking - free
Valet - paid

Reviews

Write a review

Rating: 4.8

4.8 out of 5

70 reviews

SL
Samantha L.
Rating: 1
•Zola
•Oct 17
We Asked to Postpone. They Told Us It Was Safe.
We spent 29,000 on our September 26, 2026 wedding at The Vineyards at Aquebogue. Based on our experience, I would not recommend this venue. Three days before our wedding, a major nor’easter was forecast. We contacted Lessing’s because we were concerned about severe winds, flooding, dangerous road conditions, and whether the enclosed patio could safely protect approximately 120 guests. We specifically asked about postponing. We were reassured that the patio would function like an indoor space and protect us from the weather. We relied on those assurances. What happened was exactly what we feared. Our decorator arrived to soaking wet floors, wet dining ware with rain debris, difficulty locating staff, and a DJ unable to safely set up because of water near electrical equipment. The water continued throughout our reception. It came down portions of the patio walls and into the room while guests were eating, walking, and dancing. Water accumulated around and behind the DJ area and around wiring while powered equipment was operating. This created serious slip-and-fall and electrical safety concerns. Lessing’s later acknowledged in writing that the patio was wet, had to be mopped, continued experiencing water as the wind increased, and required precautions around the DJ’s electrical connections. The DJ booth itself was never raised. Our coordinator spent portions of our wedding dealing with water instead of coordinating our event. Water was also reported entering the bridal suite near the balcony door. We lost wedding-day photos after being moved from the ceremony area, then the reception area, and ultimately directed to the balcony during severe wind and rain. We had young children with us and refused to put them in that situation. We later paid photographers to recreate some photos, but our daytime wedding became a nighttime reshoot and not everyone could return. Our neurodivergent son was terrified the storm would hurt us and barely participated. Our two-and-a-half-year-old daughter was frightened too. We also did not receive all of the food and beverage service we paid for. Guests reported missing passed desserts and difficulty obtaining beverages. My husband and I did not receive the passed desserts either. We were told fresh food would be packed for us, but food already sitting at our table was packaged instead. The General Manager later confirmed in writing that she was onsite, yet she never introduced herself to us or our vendors, and we were never given a direct number for her or the staff later identified as our contacts. At the end of our reception, I tried to thank our guests and direct them to our after-party. According to our coordinator, the woman later identified as the General Manager directed staff to shut off power to the DJ speakers because our wedding was over. Our DJ told me his equipment was still running, but the speakers had lost power. Lessing’s later denied cutting the power. Our decorator also documented that staff asked to use our custom aisle runner and decorations for the next wedding. She refused. We tried to prevent this. We asked about postponing. We raised the safety concerns. We relied on Lessing’s assurances. This is not a complaint because it rained. It is about water entering an occupied reception, guests walking and dancing on wet floors, water around electrical wiring and powered equipment, poor management communication, missing paid services, and irreplaceable wedding moments.
LF
Lauren F.
Rating: 5
•Zola
•Nov 21, 2025
Highly recommend
The Vineyards at Aquebogue provided an exceptional wedding experience from start to finish. Their communication was amazing - Kate and Emily were incredibly responsive, clear, and understanding throughout the planning process. The venue itself is absolutely beautiful, with a perfect balance of indoor and outdoor spaces that created a warm and intimate atmosphere for our celebration. On the day of, our maitre d' and bridal attendant were incredibly helpful, anticipating our needs and ensuring everything ran seamlessly so I didn't have to worry about a thing. The Vineyards at Aquebogue truly went above and beyond to make our wedding day perfect, and I cannot recommend them highly enough.
L
Lauryn
Rating: 5
•Zola
•Jul 9, 2025
june vineyards wedding
The Vineyards at Aquebogue was the perfect venue for our wedding. From the very beginning, their communication was quick and helpful - Kate in the office answered all of my emails promptly and addressed any questions I had. The venue itself was absolutely stunning, with beautifully manicured grounds and a lovely indoor space. The staff, led by the amazing maitre d' Kevin, were attentive and made sure everything ran smoothly on the day. The food was delicious and all of our guests raved about it. Kevin and the team also set up all of our decorations for us, ensuring the space looked exactly how we had envisioned. The Vineyards at Aquebogue truly helped make our wedding day a dream come true.
JA
Jacqui & A.
Rating: 5
•Zola
•Jul 7, 2025
Getting Married at Vineyards at Aquebogue
I truly can't say enough good things about our experience at The Vineyards at Aquebogue. From our very first tour, we were blown away, not just by how beautiful the venue is, but by the exceptional service we received from Kate and Emily. Kate alone made such an incredible impression during that first visit that we immediately knew this was the place for us. Throughout the entire planning process, both Kate and Emily went above and beyond. They were always accommodating, responsive, and genuinely kind. No question was too small, and no request was ever a problem. Their professionalism and warmth made what could have been a stressful experience feel effortless. On the day of our wedding, they made sure everything ran perfectly. We were able to truly relax and enjoy every moment, knowing they had everything under control. The venue looked absolutely stunning, the service was impeccable and our guests are still raving about how amazing it was! Thanks to The Vineyards at Aquebogue and their outstanding team, our wedding day was everything we dreamed of and more. We couldn’t have imagined getting married anywhere else. If you're looking for a breathtaking venue with a team that genuinely cares, look no further.
DC
Dominique C.
Rating: 5
•Zola
•Aug 21, 2024
Summer wedding
Kate at The Vineyards at Aquebogue is amazing. The venue is beautiful, elegant, and provided the perfect backdrop for our special day. The team was on top of everything to make our wedding day run smoothly. While I wish I could have met with the maitre d and bridal attendant prior to the event to go over a few details, they were great overall and the venue itself is incredible from the decor to the food. As my guests were leaving, all I kept hearing was “this was the best wedding we ever been to” and “the food was amazing!” To me, that summed it up!