The Book of Love™

Pricing

Prices start at $500

Packages

Prices start at $150

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About The Book of Love™

Reverend Cole

Wedding Officiant

At The Book of Love™, I create intelligent, deeply personal ceremonies shaped by warmth, wit and genuine emotional resonance. With more than 100 weddings celebrated across New England and New York, I welcome LGBTQ+ couples, interfaith and multicultural families, second marriages, elopements, and unconventional love stories. I bring careful preparation, a reassuring presence, and the experience to make everyone feel at ease—from our first conversation through your final vow. I listen closely, honor what matters, and create a ceremony that feels unmistakably yours. Not your usual couple? Not your usual wedding officiant!

Into every love story, I bring a writer’s ear, an artist’s imagination, a minister’s steadiness, and instincts honed through more than 100 weddings. I’ve lived in seven countries across four continents and studied sociology and philosophy, giving me an uncommon understanding of people, traditions, and the many languages of love. I listen closely, write beautifully, read the room, calm nerves, and meet the unexpected without losing the magic. You gain a devoted guide who will make your ceremony feel effortless, meaningful, and unmistakably yours. If you want a ceremony with depth, warmth, laughter, and a little magic, I’m your officiant.

In three words: Confident, Creative, Reassuring

Services

Ceremony types

  • Civil Union
  • Commitment Ceremony
  • Elopement
  • Interfaith Ceremony
  • Legal License Signing
  • Multicultural Weddings
  • Non-religious Ceremony
  • Other
  • Religious
  • Vow Renewal Ceremony

Religious affiliations

  • Buddhist
  • Catholic
  • Christian
  • Hindu
  • Interfaith
  • Other
  • Pagan
  • Secular
  • Spiritual
  • Unitarian
  • Wiccan

The Book of Love™ packages

The Love Note 🩷

Price$500

Description

For couples seeking an intimate and simple ceremony. The Love Note offers a warm, inviting way to begin your marriage. Perfect for small weddings and quiet elopements. The Love Note includes a brief consultation, a lightly personalized ceremony lasting approximately 5–10 minutes, your vows and ring exchange, professional officiating, and completion of the officiant’s portion of your marriage license. Available within 10 driving miles of Ledyard, Connecticut.

The Signature Chapter 💗

Price$750

Description

A deeply personal ceremony celebrating your unique love story. Together, we’ll create a heartfelt experience reflecting your personalities , values, dreams, and promises. Includes a private consultation, couple questionnaire, custom ceremony writing, vow guidance, meaningful readings or traditions, pre-wedding coordination, and completion of the officiant’s portion of your marriage license. Ceremonies run approximately 20 minutes. Available within 50 driving miles of Ledyard, Connecticut.

The Epic Love Story ❤️‍🔥

Price$1,500

Description

— Starting at $1,500 For couples who want more than a ceremony: an unforgettable experience. This luxurious, fully bespoke package turns your love story into something cinematic, intimate, and entirely your own. Includes extended planning, custom writing, vow guidance, special traditions, a virtual rehearsal, planner coordination, officiating, and a keepsake copy. Created for destination and extraordinary weddings; travel expenses are quoted separately.

The Signing Ceremony 🖊️

Price$150

Description

Some couples ask me to ONLY sign their marriage certificate— and I will happily oblige. If you have already had a celebration or are not interested in having a “big production,” I am happy to sign the required paperwork to legalize the marriage. Pricing starts at $150 (for up to 30 miles of travel).

What’s included
  • Legal signing of marriage certificate
  • Travel costs

Reviews

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  • MM

    Max And M.

    Rating: 5
    •Zola
    •Oct 3, 2026

    Glad we made the right choice

    From our first conversation with The Book of Love, we knew we had found our officiant. She listened carefully to what we wanted for our ceremony and built the entire service around our ideas with real thoughtfulness. What stood out most was how she paid attention during our meetings. She noticed the way we talked to each other and used that to highlight the deep communication we share. This made her part of our ceremony feel personal and genuine, like she already knew us well. Everything ran smoothly on our wedding day and we trusted the process completely. We're so grateful we reached out to her and can't recommend The Book of Love enough to other couples. We hope that you will find our review helpful when you reach out to her and find out how she can put your personalized touch on your day.

    Reverend Cole•Oct 3, 2026

    Max and MaryAnne, your words mean so much to me! From our first conversations, I was touched by the tenderness, patience, and care you showed one another. The space you created for each other gave me a meaningful foundation for writing your ceremony. I’m so happy you felt seen and understood, and that you trusted me with such an important part of your wedding day. Thank you for welcoming me into your love story and sharing such thoughtful words. It was an honor and joy to celebrate with you! Wishing you a lifetime of loving conversations, deep understanding, and happiness. May your life together be as beautiful and full of love as your wedding day. 💗 With so much love, Reverend Cole

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    Demri

    Rating: 5
    •Zola
    •Sep 22, 2026

    Love Rev. Cole!

    My husband LT and I had our dream wedding in Rhode Island, and choosing Rev. Cole from The Book of Love was one of the best decisions we made. After just one phone call, she had us laughing and feeling completely at ease about our ceremony. Rev. Cole was incredibly responsive throughout the planning process—she answered every email, call, and text promptly, which made the whole experience stress-free. On our wedding day, her humor and kindness shone through as she guided us through our vows with such warmth and joy. She brought genuine fun to our ceremony while still honoring what mattered most to us. We couldn't have asked for a better officiant to start our marriage.

    Reverend Cole•Sep 23, 2026

    Thank you so much for the nice words, Dem! Hope you guys are doing well and enjoying the nice weather. I still love that picture of you both! Best wishes to both of you! 💞

Preferred vendors of The Book of Love™

Venue
Sugarloaf Inn
Carrabassett Valley, ME
Starts at $500
Venue
Lake of Isles
Rating: 5.0 (5 reviews)
North Stonington, CT
Starts at $28,000
Quick responder
Venue
Sugarloaf Mountain Resort
Rating: 5.0 (4 reviews)
Carrabassett Valley, ME
Starts at $10,000
Venue
Tamarack Lodge & Glamping Resort
Voluntown, CT
Starts at $13,000
We start with a thoughtful conversation about your story: how you met, what you cherish, what has shaped you, and what you want your guests to feel. From there, we explore the tone, traditions, readings, rituals, and personal details that belong in your ceremony. You’ll have space to share what matters most, ask questions, and shape the experience with confidence, knowing every element is chosen with intention.
Absolutely. I’ll take the time to get to know your story, your values, and what you’re envisioning for the day, then shape your ceremony around what makes your relationship unique. Nothing is pulled from a one-size-fits-all script. Whether you’re dreaming of something romantic, joyful, unconventional, spiritual, funny, or beautifully simple, your ceremony will feel warm, meaningful, and unmistakably like you.
The Book of Love™ warmly welcomes all couples and every meaningful way of celebrating love—including LGBTQ+ couples, interfaith and multicultural families, second marriages, intimate elopements, and wonderfully unconventional weddings. Every love story is unique, and I would be honored to help you celebrate yours.
Yes! The Book of Love™ serves couples throughout New England and New York State, excluding New York City. From intimate backyard ceremonies to coastal celebrations and destination-worthy venues, I’m happy to travel wherever your love story takes us. Travel availability and any related fees will always be discussed clearly before booking.
Absolutely. Whether you need encouragement, structure, or help shaping your feelings into words, I’ll guide you with care. Together, we’ll create vows that capture what you love, value, and want to build together—natural, heartfelt, and true to your voice.
Most ceremonies run about 10 to 20 minutes, with plenty of flexibility to make the experience feel personal and meaningful. The exact timing depends on your vows, readings, traditions, and the overall tone you want to create. For example, a simple ceremony with brief personal vows may take about 10 minutes, while adding a reading, longer vows, and a unity ceremony or other tradition may bring it closer to 20 minutes. We’ll keep things moving, heartfelt, and focused, creating a ceremony that feels complete, intentional, and true to your relationship.
Yes. In-person rehearsal attendance is available for weddings within approximately 60 miles of Ledyard, Connecticut, for an additional $100–$200 based on travel distance. For weddings farther away, I provide a virtual ceremony-planning session by Zoom or FaceTime. We’ll review the processional, where everyone will stand, ceremony cues, readings, vows, rings, special traditions, and the recessional.
Absolutely. Whether you married at a courthouse, exchanged vows privately, postponed your celebration, or simply never had the ceremony that felt right, your love is still worthy of a meaningful moment surrounded by the people who matter most. You might choose a vow renewal to reflect on how your relationship has grown, a ring exchange to symbolize a new chapter, or a family celebration that includes children, parents, and other loved ones in the story of your marriage. You could also create a personalized commitment ceremony, blending readings, music, cultural traditions, or promises written for this season of your life.
I’ve officiated more than 100 weddings and have been a full-time wedding officiant since 2020. My experience includes intimate elopements, backyard gatherings, coastal ceremonies, formal venue celebrations, LGBTQ+ weddings, interfaith and multicultural ceremonies, second marriages, vow renewals, and wonderfully unconventional celebrations. Some couples want a short and simple ceremony, while others include personal vows, readings, music, family members, or meaningful traditions. Many come to me for help creating their ceremony from the ground up, and I’m happy to guide them through the process.
I have been in business since 2020 and have had the honor of officiating more than 100 weddings throughout New England and New York State. Over the years, I have built my reputation on creating warm, personal ceremonies and helping every couple feel comfortable, confident, and completely present for their moment.
Premarital counseling is entirely optional and may be arranged separately with a qualified professional. My schedule and expertise are devoted exclusively to creating exceptional, deeply personal ceremonies and giving each couple an unforgettable wedding experience.

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