Wed By Norm

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Pricing

Prices start at $700

Packages

Prices start at $700

Offer from vendor

$25 Consultation Fee

All consultation will require a $25 non-refundable fee, paid prior to your scheduled time. If you decide to move forward and book, that investment will be applied directly towards your total balance.


About Wed By Norm

Wed By Norm

Intentional, personalized ceremonies for sophisticated, stress-free couples — nationwide and abroad.

At Wed By Norm, I design wedding ceremonies that feel powerful, personal, and unforgettable. I’m Norman I. Graham, a professional wedding officiant trusted by couples across NY, NJ, CT, PA, RI, and destination locations who want their ceremony to be the moment everyone remembers. My signature strength is transforming your love story into a ceremony that feels authentic, intentional, and emotionally resonant for both you and the people who came to celebrate you. My role is to listen carefully, understand what matters most to you, and craft a ceremony that reflects your values, culture, humor, and connection.

My process is clear, collaborative, and thoughtfully structured. I design a personalized ceremony script, guide you through meaningful elements you may want to include, and coordinate closely with planners and vendors to ensure your ceremony unfolds with grace and intention. When needed, I also lead rehearsals so that everyone feels comfortable, prepared, and present for the moment that matters most. For couples who want to strengthen their partnership beyond the wedding day, I also offer premarital and post-marital coaching.

In three words: Creative, Flexible, Innovative

Best of Zola 2026

Services

Ceremony types

  • Civil Union
  • Commitment Ceremony
  • Elopement
  • Interfaith Ceremony
  • Legal License Signing
  • Multicultural Weddings
  • Non-religious Ceremony
  • Religious
  • Vow Renewal Ceremony

Religious affiliations

  • Buddhist
  • Catholic
  • Christian
  • Hindu
  • Interfaith
  • Jewish
  • Muslim
  • Pagan
  • Secular
  • Sikh
  • Spiritual
  • Unitarian
  • Wiccan

Wed By Norm packages

Pearl

Price$700

Description

Package 1

What’s included
  • Consultation
  • Personalized Ceremony Script
  • Memorable Ceremony
  • Vow Assistance
  • Professional Officiating
  • Signing Marriage License
  • Domestic Travel Up To 40 miles

Amber

Price$900

Description

Package 2

What’s included
  • All Pearl Package Services
  • Wedding Rehearsal
  • Speech Assistance For 2 Wedding Party Members

Ruby

Price$1,100

Description

Package 3

What’s included
  • All Amber Package Services
  • Ceremony Equipment Provided
  • Professional Audio System
  • Vendor Referral
  • Framed Keepsake Certificate
  • Custom Wine Bottle For 2
  • Domestic/International Travel

Reviews

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Rating: 5.0

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75 reviews

  • Y

    Yan

    Rating: 5
    •Zola
    •Sep 24, 2026

    DJ

    Working as the DJ at a Virginia wedding with Wed By Norm was a great experience. He was professional, communicative, and easy to work with—and when the reception needed an MC, he jumped in without missing a beat, apparently adding another job title on the fly! He kept the energy flowing and handled the unexpected like a pro. If you’re looking for a wedding officiant who travels and who can connect with a crowd and roll with the moment, Wed By Norm is a great choice.

    Norman Graham•Sep 24, 2026

    Thank you for the kind words! It was a pleasure working alongside you at this Virginia wedding. As a traveling wedding officiant, I believe a memorable wedding experience goes beyond the ceremony—it’s about creating meaningful moments, collaborating with talented vendors, and adapting when the unexpected happens. Stepping in as MC wasn’t on my itinerary, but keeping the celebration flowing? Absolutely! 😂 Here’s to unforgettable ceremonies, seamless celebrations, and giving couples an experience worth investing in. 🥂

  • KB

    Kaitlin B.

    Rating: 5
    •Zola
    •Sep 21, 2026

    An Amazing Officiant

    We are thankful we chose Norman to lead our wedding ceremony as our officiant. He went above and beyond not only on the day of, but also during our meetings leading up to the big day. Choose Norman for a charismatic and personable officiant who will do whatever it takes to make your special day perfect. Norman proactively inspected our ceremony space hours before the ceremony and quickly bought bug repellent spray to ensure our guests would be comfortable. Norman also doubles as an amazing party guest. He attended our rehearsal dinner and reception socializing with all our friends and family. And even after the big day, Norman is still there for you. He is a great resource for assisting in getting your marriage license and certificate. Choosing Norman was one of the best decisions we made during our wedding planning process as he really helped our day come together as imagined.

    Norman Graham•Sep 21, 2026

    Thank you both for trusting me with such an important part of your wedding day. From the planning conversations to checking the ceremony space, making sure your guests were comfortable, and helping you navigate the post-wedding details, my goal was always to be more than just the person who stood at the altar—I wanted to be someone you could genuinely count on. And yes, once the ceremony is over, I can apparently be convinced to join the party too! 😂 It was an absolute joy celebrating with you, your family, and your friends, and I'm grateful that the relationship didn't end when I said, “By the power vested in me…” ❤️ Wishing you both a lifetime of love, laughter, and choosing each other—again and again. 🥂

  • JF

    Jessica F.

    Rating: 5
    •Zola
    •Sep 18, 2026

    Charm

    Norm was amazing. Although he had a clear role in the wedding and remained very professional throughout the entire experience, he was able to balance that with being incredibly personable, warm, and charismatic. From the beginning, he was direct and clear in his communication, respectful of everyone involved, and made the entire process feel easy and comfortable. What stood out most to me was how naturally he connected with everyone. Nothing about his presence felt forced or overly formal. He knew when to take the lead, when to make us laugh, and when to simply be present in the moment. By the end of the wedding, I genuinely felt like I had left with a new friend. 10/10 experience. I will be booking him for my future wedding and will encourage others to do the same!

    Norman Graham•Sep 18, 2026

    This means so much, especially coming from someone who was part of the wedding party and experienced the day from such an important perspective. Thank you for bringing the laughter to the day—and I’ll absolutely be looking forward to officiating your future wedding!

  • J

    Justin

    Rating: 5
    •Zola
    •Sep 13, 2026

    Guest

    Norm was absolutely amazing! He was professional, personable, and made the entire experience feel smooth and effortless. His warm personality immediately put everyone at ease, and he made the ceremony feel personal, meaningful, and genuine.

    Norman Graham•Sep 14, 2026

    Thank you so much for your kind words! It was such a pleasure being part of this beautiful celebration, and I’m glad I could help create a ceremony that felt personal, meaningful, and true to the couple. As a wedding officiant serving the DMV area, my goal is always to bring professionalism, warmth, and a genuine connection to every ceremony. I truly appreciate you being there and taking the time to share your experience!

  • AC

    Aracelis C.

    Rating: 5
    •Zola
    •Sep 9, 2026

    AMAZIN

    Norman was absolutely AMAZING at the Singleton wedding! He served as both the officiant and emcee, and truly helped make the entire day unforgettable. From the ceremony through the reception, he was professional, personable, funny, and brought such a natural energy to every moment. As the officiant, Norman delivered a beautiful ceremony. He has an incredible voice and presence, and the way he spoke made everything feel meaningful, personal, and genuine. His delivery and flow were perfect, and he knew exactly when to bring in a little humor while still keeping the importance of the moment. As the emcee, he was just as incredible. He kept the reception flowing seamlessly, made great announcements, kept everyone engaged, and knew how to read the room and maintain the energy throughout the night. Nothing ever felt awkward, rushed, or forced. Having one person who could transition so effortlessly from officiating the ceremony to leading the reception was amazing. If you’re looking for someone who is professional, charismatic, funny, well-spoken, and genuinely great at what he does, I highly recommend Norman and Wed By Norm. He played such a big part in making the Singleton wedding an incredible experience!

    Norman Graham•Sep 9, 2026

    Wow...this made my day. Thank you so much for taking the time to write this! Being the wedding officiant was already an honor, but getting to moonlight as the emcee too? Let's just say I survived my first official MC debut without getting booed off the dance floor, so I'll take that as a win. 😂 Who knows...maybe there's a future in it after all. I'm so glad the ceremony felt personal and genuine. Every couple has a unique story, and I want guests to leave feeling like they got to know you a little better—not like they just watched another cookie-cutter ceremony. Keeping the reception moving was a fun challenge, and hearing that everything flowed naturally means a lot. Celebrating with the Singletons was one I'll never forget and I'm glad you were able to witness it.


3 years
I do attend and assist with wedding rehearsals. That price is included in my second and third package.
Yes! I do them all the time.
I provide pre-marital and post-marital coaching. It is not mandatory.
All of my ceremonies are personalized to each couple to make them feel at home and at ease!