The Best Historic Estate & Mansion Wedding Venues in Durham, NH

Welcome! Nestled amid 130 acres of rolling fields and tranquil woodlands in Durham, NH, Emery Farmstay offers you and your partner a breathtaking blend of history, charm, and rural elegance on your wedding day. Built in 1803, The Big Barn is at the heart of the property, and its fabulous post-and-beam structure provides a welcoming space for both intimate and lavish affairs. You and a select group of guests will enjoy the luxurious on-site accommodations, thoughtfully appointed for this exact occasion. A Little Bit of History Repeating Founded in 1660 by Joseph and Mary Smith, Emery Farmstay proudly holds the distinction of being America’s oldest family farm, now lovingly cared for by the eleventh generation, David and Catherine. Beautifully restored historic homes, surrounded by pastures, blueberry fields, and the gentle rhythm of farm life, combine to create an atmosphere that is both timeless and deeply personal, a truly one-of-a-kind backdrop for a bespoke wedding celebration.

If you are looking for a beautiful outdoor space, where you and your guests can make the most of your time together, 1790 is the perfect venue. At the 1790 House, we are passionate about providing you with the best experience on the Seacoast. We want to help you craft your perfect event by sharing our expertise and knowledge with you. We offer day-of coordination and will guide you through every detail. Our exclusive catering offers a menu to remember. Start with a beautiful custom designed graze board followed by a variety of menus like our award-winning Muddy River Barbeque or a traditional New England lobster bake. End the night with dancing while your guests enjoy making gourmet s’mores! The 1790 house is conveniently located just 10 miles from Portsmouth, NH. Set on a historic property in Newfields, 1790 blends rustic New England charm with Modern Hospitality.

Nestled in the heart of historic Portsmouth, the Moffatt-Ladd House & Garden offers an intimate and enchanting setting for couples dreaming of a wedding that feels both timeless and personal. Built in 1763, this National Historic Landmark is defined by its lush formal gardens, brick pathways, and centuries-old charm—perfect for an elegant outdoor celebration. Exchange vows surrounded by seasonal blooms and classic New England beauty, then gather with your guests in a space that feels like a private garden estate. Every corner of the grounds offers a picturesque backdrop, creating an atmosphere that is warm, romantic, and effortlessly memorable. As a space-only venue, Moffatt-Ladd allows you the freedom to curate a wedding that reflects your vision and style, with trusted local vendor recommendations and thoughtful support along the way. Ideal for couples seeking a refined, romantic setting with historic character and natural beauty.

Historic, breath taking 4 story barn The farm and barn are about 200 years old, and the barn was originally used for cows. Over the years, it has been very well taken care of, so the original beams are still there, in sizes and shapes that you just can't get anymore! The owners are the third generation in their family to take care of the property and are very grateful to be the current stewards. The barn renovations completed in 2020 and it is all ADA compliant and up to code. In the barn, there is a full sound system, 14 chandeliers, a beautiful live edge bar top, two high end composting toilets (the flushing kind!), massive barn blue doors on each end, and a grand entrance staircase. The barn holds up to 200 people and is big enough that you don't have to rent a tent even with tables and chairs, a major benefit and money saver! In the event of rain, you can use the barn as a ceremony and reception space.

Stage House Inn is a stately and elegant wedding venue. The property offers 20 unique guest rooms, private function spaces, and Dufour, an on-site award-winning restaurant and bar. The venue offers plenty of historical charm and Maine-style hospitality. The Stage House Inn specializes in hosting private events. These include micro weddings (for up to 70 guests), showers, corporate events, holiday parties, baptism celebrations, funeral receptions, celebrations of life, and other events for 25-150 guests. Since the late 1700s, the structure that now houses Stage House Inn and Dufour has served many purposes. From a private residence, it soon became a stagecoach stop where visitors would stop to eat and lodge at Frost Tavern. Following that, it was Paul’s Hotel, and eventually also served as a boarding house. Then, for nearly 70 years it was a convent run by the Sisters of St. Joseph Order. It was also a christian school. Wedding Pictures: Jordan Luciano of Anne Skidmore Photography

Our story begins in 1858 when Frank Jones arrived in Portsmouth with a dream of brewing ale. Within three decades, The Frank Jones Brewery became the largest ale producer in the country. As ale production expanded, the brewery added a cooperage and scald house to clean the barrels. Workers used scalding hot rocks to sanitize barrels because soap and water would cause them to warp. Once cleaned, the barrels were filled with Jones’ signature ales. The Hawthorn now occupies this Scald House, retaining its original red-brick walls, towering beams, and industrial windows. “Cheers,” then, has a whole new meaning at The Hawthorn. When you raise your glass at your event, you’ll be toasting in a place that’s positively brewing with Portsmouth ale-making heritage and local history.

Signature Portsmouth, NH Seacoast weddings are a specialty at The Venue at Portwalk Place. Our charming wedding venues marry classic coastal elegance with versatile event space that is certain to provide the perfect backdrop for your special celebration in Portsmouth, NH. Our understated elegance can be easily customized to reflect your unique style, creating a personalized experience for you and your guests. With over 4,600 square feet of flexible event and pre-function space, our New Hampshire wedding venue can effortlessly build an event that brings your vision to life and comfortably accommodates 15 – 250 guests. Our experienced and attentive staff takes care of the details so you can enjoy every moment of your special day. We’ll work with you to create an unforgettable experience based on your budget, style and guest needs. The Venue at Portwalk Place offers a variety of Wedding Packages to accommodate your wedding vision.