The Best Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

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13 Wedding Venues in Southold, NY

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Swan Lake Caterers 
Rating: 5.0 (22 reviews)
Manorville, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $15,000

Swan Lake is a new and unique destination in Long Island's East End for hosting your events. We are located on the award winning Swan Lake Golf Course which allows us to offer a unique backdrop on our beautiful greens. Swan Lake Caterers is a banquet hall wedding venue located in Manorville, New York. This event space is nestled within the Swan Lake Golf Course, offering beautiful grounds and picturesque views for your special day. Swan Lake Caterers aims to provide the perfect setting for your dream day, offering quality cuisine, elegant event spaces, and comprehensive rental packages to make your day unforgettable.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Multiple event spaces
  • Has a relaxed and casual vibe
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
Highly recommend! From start to finish they made the entire wedding and planning experience incredible.
Erin B., 2 years ago
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Sea Cliff Manor 
Rating: 4.9 (10 reviews)
  • Up to 205 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $155

Sea Cliff Manor is an exquisite setting for both Long Island weddings and wedding receptions, combining elegant indoor and outdoor wedding venues with the spectacular beauty of Long Island Sound in the background. Our indoor wedding reception location is highlighted by a lovely double-faced fireplace, traditional bar area, and magnificent panoramic views, while our spectacular outdoor terrace features an incomparable garden-like setting. Our experienced, on-site wedding catering and event specialists are available to assist with every detail, so you can focus on what's really important. Celebrating this special milestone with family and friends.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Venue feels large for events with small guest lists
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
Awarded Best of Zola
If I could give them 6 stars I would!! Sea Cliff made our day truly like no other. Ian is the most professional and caring person who truly loves what he does, where he brings your day to life and more! Sea Cliff exceeded any and every expectation we had, and was so on it with everything and anything possible! We can’t recommend sea cliff enough and how it is truly the best!!
Kelsey P., 10 months ago
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Bourne Mansion 
Rating: 4.7 (90 reviews)
·Ratings include Zola and Google reviews
Oakdale, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor

This historic Vanderbilt mansion is a turn-of-the-century work of art that offers a traditional and classic setting for the grandest black tie affairs. From lawn events hosting over 1,000 guests, to weddings and corporate affairs hosting 300 guests, Bourne Mansion personifies luxury and grandeur and the elaborate celebrations of yesteryear. Bourne Mansion is conveniently located, only 90 minutes from New York City, yet worlds away.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Classic elegance
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are drawn to more unconventional venues
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • Best for events with big guest lists
Awarded Best of Zola
We got married 1/5/25 but had been working with Miriam for probably a year and a half before our big day. She was always so personable with us a treated us like family. Words cannot describe the love and care we felt from Jake, our maître D and Samantha, our bridal attendant, on our wedding day. We were cared for tediously and effortlessly. We felt like at ease, happy and totally relaxed. I needed Samantha and didn’t even know it, I am forever indebted to her - she could not have been more attentive and wonderful. Comforting me, assuring me, getting me where I need to be and when. So friendly, kind and amazing. Thank god for Jake. He is so special and we’re so lucky we got him as our maître D. He deems himself as a “yes man” and he is not lying. Anything you could have ever wanted from him, he’d deliver. We wanted for nothing, had wonderful direction from him all night and he took care of EVERYTHING!  The night was flawless, amazing, perfect and all we could have ever hoped for. The staff at Bourne is unmatched, we made the right choice with this venue. Guests will be in awe of the venue and talk about the food for years to come. I wish I could do it all again. Thank you Bourne mansion & staff for the best night of our lives! I don’t have all my pics back yet!
Sara C., 2 years ago
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Essex Club 
Rating: 4.8 (77 reviews)
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Brentwood, NY
  • Up to 215 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $85
  • Open house

With resplendent garden views, a picturesque gazebo and a magnificent ballroom, Essex Club sets the scene for an extraordinary wedding or special event. Set amidst 50-acres of rolling greens and perennial gardens, the quaint country club can be customized to the setting of your dreams no matter the occasion. Be it an al fresco cocktail hour, a sophisticated fundraiser or an exchange of vows at the edge of the sprawling lawn, your vision will come to life at Essex Club.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Offers full-service amenities
  • Provides catering services
  • Picturesque garden backdrop

Venue considerations

  • Does not allow pets
  • Best for events with big guest lists
  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
Awarded Best of Zola
If I could give Essex Club 100 stars, I would. The staff is top notch and will go above and beyond to make your day perfect. Jessica is the best person to be handling your wedding during the planning stage, she makes everything feel simple and stress-free. Rob, the maître d’, will keep everything moving seamlessly on the big day and Julissa, my bridal attendant, was always there when I needed her for anything, no matter how big or small. The food is amazing (shout out to the Asiago rice balls!!!), the grounds are beautiful, and the ballroom and cocktail hour space have a romantic and intimate feel. The price is incredibly reasonable if you do their complete wedding package. We chose to upgrade certain parts of the package but that’s totally up to each individual couple. I still feel like we got the best deal for our money. We got married on Saturday, April 18th. It was the most perfect day I could have asked for!! I feel like Essex Club is a hidden gem and I want to take out an ad in the paper for them because people have no idea what they are missing by not booking with them.
Amy R., 4 months ago
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Peconic Bay Yacht Club 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Southold, NY
  • Up to 300 guests
  • Select services
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $50,000

Inside or out, a wedding at the Peconic Bay Yacht Club is a romantic affair. The manicured grounds and great lawn overlooking the Peconic Bay are ideal for your picturesque ceremony or tented reception. The building offers a variety of venues to accommodate your party’s style and guest list.

We recently got married at Peconic Bay Yacht Club and had the most incredible experience. Hillary and John were so attentive, thoughtful, and on top of every detail both leading up to the big day and throughout it. Their support made everything feel easy and stress-free. The venue itself is breathtaking, and our guests are still talking about how amazing the food was. From handling unexpected hiccups to making sure every detail was just right, they truly went above and beyond. We’re so grateful to the entire team at PBYC for making our wedding so memorable.
Catherine G., a year ago
One Woman Wines & Vineyards 
Southold, NY
  • Up to 250 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $10,000

Our vineyard and winery are located in Southold, NY. Previously a potato and melon farm, Claudia fell in love with the property across from her home and when it came up for sale in 2001 she did not want to see the farm developed. After closing her restaurant in western Nassau county she went forward with purchasing the property and selling the development rights to preserve it's beauty. Since then she's slowly hand planted and renovated the potato barns that existed on the property into her winery.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Unique barn setting
  • Has a dance floor to dance the night away
  • Pets can join the celebration

Venue considerations

  • No dedicated areas for getting ready
  • Not for you if you're looking for a sleek and contemporary space
  • No on-site guest accommodations
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The Halyard at Sound View Greenport 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Greenport, NY
  • Up to 180 guests
  • Select services
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $10,000

A home for weddings, celebrations, or the perfect sound side cocktail party, Sound View Greenport is the newly renovated, boutique Resort on the North Fork, with the ability to host events up to 200 guests (with a full venue buyout) or a small intimate wedding in our Library room, up to 50 guests. The convivial atmosphere and timeless charm of our spaces and grounds will provide you and your guests with memories to last a lifetime. Whether it is saying “I Do” on our private beach or celebrating a bridal shower or rehearsal dinner in our cozy library, our catering team is on hand to create a tailor-made event for your enjoyment. The Halyard can accommodate a seated wedding with dance floor for up to 120 guests and can offer a cocktail style reception for larger groups up to 150. Create the wedding weekend of your dreams.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has onsite accommodations
  • Wheelchair accessible
  • Provides a dedicated team on-site

Venue considerations

  • No built-in audiovisual options
  • No on-site bridal suite
I've been a wedding photographer on the North Fork for 10+ years and since The Halyard came on the scene it has quickly proven itself as a top event venue. Not only is the location itself like none other, literally hugging the water's edge, the food is beyond outstanding and the staff is wonderfully professional. The recent renovation under new ownership was so well done, featuring modern and nautical decor while maintaining the charm of the North Fork. The Halyard is connected with The Soundview Hotel making it a truly ideal wedding location, allowing couple's to relax without having to shuffle around on the big day. And no matter what light is given, the closeness to the sea at The Halyard ensures beautiful photos always. It's a special place on The North Fork and hands down my favorite waterfront venue.
Caroline, 6 years ago
The Rams Head Inn 
Rating: 5.0 (3 reviews)
Shelter Island Heights, NY
  • Up to 225 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $20,000

Located on beautiful Shelter Island overlooking Coecles Harbor, The Ram's Head Inn has breath-taking water views. The hotel features 17 guest rooms, a private beach, hammocks and adirondack chairs for our guests. The restaurant features the best in local fare with food coming almost exclusively from the east end of Long Island or from the Chef's garden.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Historic touches
  • Caters to out-of-town guests
  • Provides catering services

Venue considerations

  • Not for you if you are looking for something nontraditional
  • Large venue, not ideal for small guest lists
  • Lighting and sound are not included
Rams Head Inn was an absolute pleasure to work with for my client's summer wedding! Their events manager was communicative and detail-oriented leading up to the wedding, and on the day of, the entire team was so on top of everything. The RHI staff is delightful and are great team players. I definitely felt like we were all working together to bring our clients' vision to life!
Leah W., 5 years ago
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Saybrook Point Resort & Marina 
Rating: 5.0 (2 reviews)
Old Saybrook, CT
  • Up to 200 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Indoor & outdoor
  • Starts at $19,141

Let our experienced wedding professionals help bring your vision to life with old-world elegance and seaside charm. Saybrook Point Resort & Marina has an amazing reputation for handling weddings of all sizes and styles. With several options for your ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception, you can leave all the details to us.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Full catering menu to choose from
  • Flexible event spaces
  • Has onsite accommodations

Venue considerations

  • Limited cleanup and setup services
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Does not allow pets
Saybrook Point Resort & Marina truly became the wedding venue of our dreams. From the moment we arrived, we could feel how special and full of charm this place is. The views are stunning, the team is attentive, and every single detail felt effortless from start to finish. Abby and Meredith were incredible — they worked flawlessly with our planner, Nicole from Pretty Peony Planning, and together they made everything look seamless. We booked the guest houses for our wedding parties to get ready, and it was one of the best choices we made. The private, cozy, and beautiful spaces made the morning feel joyful, calm, and personal. It felt like home — but with more space and more luxury. It felt like we were getting ready in a real life dollhouse! Being just steps away from the venue while still having our own space was the perfect way to start the day. Our guests couldn’t stop raving about the food, the setting and how flawlessly everything ran. The service was amazing (no one had to wait long for a drink!) and every detail was handled with care. If you’re looking for a picturesque location, exceptional service, delicious food and a team who truly knows how to create a magical wedding experience, Saybrook Point is it. We could not imagine a better place to begin our forever — and we can’t wait to come back and celebrate our anniversaries by the marina!
Brooke P., 10 months ago
Ellen's on Front 
Greenport, NY
  • Select services
  • Indoor
  • Starts at $2,000

At Ellen's on Front, prepare to indulge in a menu that radiates creativity. Chef Jennie Wert's remarkable talent lies in her ability to expertly blend Latin and Asian influences with traditional American fare, resulting in a truly innovative yet comforting dining experience. But Ellen's on Front is more than just a restaurant; it's a gathering place where friends, family, and food enthusiasts come together. Our dedicated staff is passionate about delivering exceptional service, ensuring that your dining experience is truly second to none. From the moment you step through our doors, you'll be enveloped in the warmth and hospitality that sets us apart, creating memories that will last long after the final bite.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Provides event staff
  • Provides catering services
  • Provides lighting and sound

Venue considerations

  • No free parking
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No on-site bridal suite
Hotel Moraine 
Greenport, NY
  • Up to 125 guests
  • Raw space
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $15,000

With breathtaking views of the Long Island Sound, our property offers 20 guest rooms, a sprawling lawn, private beach, pool, and bluff cottage. We host events for up to 125 people. Tented Events on the Lawn: Our expansive lawn overlooking the Long Island Sound provides the ideal setting for tented events of up to 100 guests. Say "I do" with the gentle sound of waves and the sun setting over the water as your backdrop. Private Bluff or Beach Ceremonies: Exchange your vows in an intimate ceremony against the backdrop of our private Bluff or Beach areas. The serene atmosphere and natural beauty of the surroundings will enhance the magic of the moment. Special Requests & Intimate Dining: We take pride in accommodating your special requests to make your event uniquely yours. Our Cottage on the Bluff offers an intimate space for rehearsal dinners or private dining experiences for up to 25 guests, adding a touch of exclusivity to your celebration.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Flexible event spaces
  • Blends luxury with trendiness
  • Offers full flexibility in setup and decor

Venue considerations

  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available
  • Dance floor not included
  • No on-site bridal suite
Léon 1909 
Shelter Island Heights, NY
  • Up to 150 guests
  • All-inclusive
  • Outdoor & indoor
  • Starts at $18,000

In summer 2022, Valerie Mnuchin and her father Robert Mnuchin debuted Léon, their first independent restaurant located on Shelter Island. Named after Valerie’s paternal grandfather, whose affinity for romantic European adventures and seaside destinations inform the restaurant’s setting, Léon is an inviting homage to the past with warm, natural materials and nods to unfussy, countryside French and Italian fare. A wood-burning hearth at the heart of the restaurant serves as its anchor, inspiring a Provençal-style menu showcasing regional ingredients. Now Open Seven Days a Week 5-10 pm Chef: Mason Lindahl Sous Chef: Armond Joseph General Manager: Chris Clark

Why you'll love this venue

  • Has a dance floor for celebration
  • Handles all cleanup logistics
  • All-inclusive venue packages

Venue considerations

  • No on-site bridal suite
  • No on-site guest accommodations
  • Does not allow pets
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Breezehill Farm 
Peconic, NY
  • Select services
  • Outdoor
  • Starts at $25,000

Nestled into over 72 acres of sprawling apple orchards and a private hunting preserve on the North Fork of Long Island rests an exquisitely constructed farmhouse and charming Farm Stand featuring fresh-picked fruits and veggies along with sweet treats like our famous apple cider donuts and fresh-baked pies. One visit to Breeze Hill Farm and Preserve and you’ll quickly realize why it’s one of Long Island’s local gems and most treasured destination.

Why you'll love this venue

  • Venue is completely outdoors
  • Exudes old-world charm
  • Has a sophisticated vibe

Venue considerations

  • Couple must handle cleanup and setup
  • Not wheelchair accessible
  • No in-house lighting and sound packages available

About wedding venues in Southold, NY

Why is New York the Perfect Wedding Destination?

New York gives you incredible variety for your special day, from Manhattan's iconic skyline to the charming countryside of Upstate. You can enjoy timeless elegance at The Plaza Hotel with its grand ballrooms overlooking Central Park, or take in breathtaking panoramic views of Manhattan at Tribeca Rooftop. Brooklyn offers photography-friendly industrial-chic spaces like The Foundry with its character-filled exposed brick and factory windows. Head Upstate and you'll find City Winery Hudson Valley where your celebration unfolds against the backdrop of a working vineyard with mountain views that change beautifully with each season. April sees the most wedding inquiries in New York, showing just how many couples are drawn to the region during spring's beautiful blooming season.

What's the Reality of Wedding Costs in New York?

Expect to pay more for your New York wedding than the national average of $6,500-$12,000 for venues alone. New York venues typically cost around $16,709 which makes up about 22% of your total wedding budget. Your overall costs will vary based on how many guests you're hosting:

Guest CountTotal Wedding Budget
50 guests (small wedding)$32,316
100 guests$54,844
150 guests$76,011
200 guests$94,911
250 guests$113,810
300 guests (large wedding)$132,709

Your other major expenses will include catering at $13,367 (18%), bar services running $10,694 (14%), florals at $8,177 (11%), planners costing $6,044 (8%), photography at $5,119 (7%), videography at $4,622 (6%), entertainment at $2,298 (3%), cake and desserts at $1,067 (1%), and hair and makeup averaging $550 (1%).

How Do NYC Wedding Venues Compare to Upstate Locations?

NYC venues offer you urban sophistication with distinctive skyline views. At Tribeca Rooftop + 360° you'll enjoy floor-to-ceiling windows showcasing Manhattan panoramas while The Plaza presents opulent ballrooms featuring chandeliers ornate molding and gold accents. The 620 Loft & Garden gives you a stunning rooftop terrace overlooking St. Patrick's Cathedral and Fifth Avenue. Upstate venues surround you with natural beauty and historic architecture. City Winery Hudson Valley welcomes you to a renovated factory featuring vaulted ceilings stone walls and vineyard views. You can host up to 350 guests here and customize your outdoor ceremony areas to create exactly the atmosphere you're dreaming of.

Which New York Venues Offer Outstanding Culinary Experiences?

You can treat your guests to Two Michelin star cuisine at Manhatta perched 60 floors high in the Financial District where Executive Chef Justin Bogle creates memorable dishes like hamachi and black truffle dumplings. The River Cafe in Brooklyn serves Michelin-starred cuisine featuring Hudson Valley foie gras and Nantucket Bay scallops with Brooklyn Bridge views right outside your window. For a farm-to-table experience Blue Hill at Stone Barns in Westchester County offers cuisine sourced directly from their on-site farm with their HayLoft space accommodating anywhere from 40 to 260 guests.

Where Can You Find Accessible Wedding Venues in New York?

For couples prioritizing accessibility 620 Loft & Garden offers customizable settings that can work with various needs though you'll want to confirm specific features during your planning. Prospect Park Boathouse and Central Park Conservatory Garden provide accessible options with proper pathways for all your guests. Always ask about specific accommodations like wheelchair ramps elevators and accessible restrooms when you're researching potential venues to ensure everyone can fully participate in your celebration.

How Can Guests Participate Remotely at New York Weddings?

Historic Manhattan venues can make remote guests feel included by incorporating virtual tours during ceremony breaks while Midtown Loft & Terrace supports interactive platforms that go beyond simple passive streaming. You might consider venues in Chelsea or SoHo that can enhance those famous skyline views with live streaming that includes interactive elements like virtual photobooths live chats or virtual toasts. These features help create genuine engagement for participants joining your special day from afar.

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